Advice Blog

Let me just say that I am incredibly socially awkward as well. I have friends, but I don’t know how to interact and keep contact with them. I have social anxiety, and so that adds stress onto my relationships..

Why do you think you’re so awkward with him? Is it because you like him so much that you just don’t know how to act around him, or are you just blinded by your feelings and just can’t act? I know that was worded strangely, but I get what that second one is like.. 

Yeah, I agree with that. Being high off drugs and meds is not a way to make an impression, especially if you ever get off the drugs and start to act differently, that can be confusing. I don’t know what it’s like to take adderall, but I do know what it’s like to do other drugs.. Using that as a way of communicating will not end well! Be careful with that.

Why do you think he likes you? Are you seeing signs? Just like with the last message, you should be sure of things like this before acting on it. You don’t want to break your heart! It’s precious, you’re precious. And it hurts so much when you think someone likes you and it turns out that it was just misread signs.. If you’re both “awkward”, maybe you should talk about it? Talk about how you wish things were more normal, how you guys could talk more.. Bring the subject up. Bring anything up. Just talk to him! Communication is key for things like this. There aren’t very many ways to get over awkwardness, except to branch out and talk to people. Good luck! :)

First off, I would try and look for the signs. Do you ever catch her looking at you? Does she smile when you compliment her, or when she compliments you? Does she have a certain “glow” when you’re around? Noticing little things like these can really help..

Second, I hate to say it, but just because you talk alot, it doesn’t mean she likes you. You have to be really sure, or else you will be friend-zoned, and that hurts a lot. Trust me, I’ve been there. MAKE SURE that she likes you before you tell her, so it’s not awkward for you guys afterwards! Or wait to see if she makes a move. And if she does, then great, you can tell her. If she doesn’t, and you still don’t know what to do, then talk to her about her crushes and stuff. Just try to get to know her better, so maybe you can find out if you’d be good together~

Okay, so I know your name now (from chat, you remember), but not you exactly.. I don’t know anything about you, so I can’t say that I feel your exact pain, but I can say that I understand what you’re going through.. 

First off though, I’d just like to say that it’s really kind of adorable that you’ve liked her for so long. Usually guys just go for girls because of their looks, and when they can’t “have” them, they move on. This shows how much you care, and I just really can’t believe she hasn’t gone for you. You seem like a perfect boy and boyfriend. 

What is this boy like, do you know? I know what it’s like to go back to someone who repeatedly hurt you. It’s because you have something with them, a connection, and you just like them too much to let go. And so you just forgive them, over and over. It breaks you a little more each time, but you can’t just let go of these feelings for them. You’ve made too many memories, you’ve made them part of you. So I guess that’s where she is.

I don’t have advice on how to make her like you, stuff like that just happens at random. You can’t force feelings and you can’t force them to go away. There are tricks to help you lessen your feelings for people, but otherwise it’s really hard to get someone to like you.. From what I’m hearing, you’re a really generous and caring person. Just keep being YOU and stay there for her, no matter what. Maybe someday (and soon) she will have her eyes opened and realize that you were here all along..

Texting him first doesn’t make you clingy or annoying, don’t worry. It’s a natural feeling when you like someone, especially this much.. It’s actually really cute that you miss him after 2 days, I know how that feels.. <3

That’s so great that he’s asked you out and possibly likes you! What did he and you say after that? What happened afterwards as well?

You say you haven’t met, what does that meet? Where and how did you find each other, how long have you been talking for, what’s your friendship/relationship like exactly? These are just some questions ahaa 

Your weight or body shouldn’t be an issue. You sound like you talk to each other a lot and so that’s how you’ve become so close.. And though you’ve never met, you say that you’re in love with him and that he likes you back. That is a good sign because it means that he has fallen for your personality, and that’s better than falling for someone’s looks.. It’s so much more genuine and feels so much better.. I hope this helped, <3